People are often curious why a person
should bother writing down their goals and/or dreams. While many
people may at first believe it to be a pointless exercise, it
nonetheless deserves some attention and consideration.
Perhaps the most basic reason a person
would do well to scrupulously write out exactly what it is they
desire to accomplish is so that they can solidify in their mind
exactly what it is they want. Many times we have a general idea of
something we want to accomplish, but it often isn't until we actually
write it out and bother to explicitly define it, that we are able to
get down to the “nitty gritty” details and fully grasp the object
of our desire. In this sense, writing it out helps a person form a
more coherent idea of what is it they want which in turn provides
them with a “better picture” to pursue. The reason it is better
to have a well defined goal as opposed to a vague and generalized one
is because things which are vague and general are, for the most part,
not nearly as motivating as something well defined and thought out.
Is it more emotionally rousing to want to “go on vacation” or to
explicitly define where it is you will go, who you will go with, what
you will do and what it will mean to you?
Another reason it's a good idea for a
person to write out a goal and/or dream is so they can focus on it or
“keep it before them” as described in the previous post. A
written statement describing a goal should be used to help “keep
one's mind” focused on the very thing they want to
accomplish. This is why it is suggested that a person read their
written statement aloud. When a goal or dream becomes a dominating
thought in the mind of an individual they begin to think in terms
of accomplishing it and are thus able to begin developing concrete
plans for its attainment. If we reflect on the five-step process
described in Lesson III: Goals and Dreams we find that each
step builds upon a foundation provided by the previous step. Thus, a
person cannot focus on a goal if the goal has not been
defined, nor can their goal become a dominating thought
if they fail to focus on it, just as the ideas needed for planning
cannot be developed without goal-oriented dominating thoughts, and so
too action cannot follow without a plan of any kind. We find
that the process of bringing an idea, goal or dream into reality
presupposes a kind of chain which cannot function properly in the
absence of even one link.
At this point an objection can be
raised. Isn't it possible for a person to define and focus
on their goal mentally and thus not need to resort to writing
it down? Yes—such a thing is definitely possible—and there may be
people who can succeed in doing so. But it should be strongly
emphasized that if a person does attempt to do what has been
described without writing anything down, they are much more
likely to lose sight of their goal or forget they had it to begin
with. The reason it is suggested to write out a goal or dream and
focus on it is because it is simply a more reliable method which
yields better results.
Another point of relevance which is not
discussed in the book is the importance of attaching a time-frame to
one's goal or dream. In other words, determining an expected length
of time needed to accomplish a given objective. This can be used in
conjunction with writing down or defining a goal and can offer some
added benefits. To begin with, giving oneself a length of time to
accomplish something adds some urgency to the goal itself. If
a person says they want to do something “someday” they are
essentially removing any urgency
to accomplish it. They can always say that “someday” they will
get around to working on it or whatever. In addition, when a person
attaches a time-frame to a goal they also create a mechanism to
measure their progress, which
in turn contributes to the urgency of accomplishing the goal. If your
time-frame is “someday” then you have no real time-oriented way
to measure your progress in accomplishing your goal. But if your
time-frame is (say) one year, your progress or lack thereof can be
measured against the amount of time you have remaining to complete
your goal.
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